Thursday 26 December 2013

5 reasons people play hard to get

Why people play hard to get?

Have you ever wondered why the person you keep on persueing just keeps turning you down even when you work so hard to give you a chance? Well heres some good advice for you, there are many reasons behind it some of them good reasons while others lame. But the thing is, whichever way you look at it, these things happen and will continue happening. Heres some good advice for you, lets dive into this topic further shall we.


5 reasons why people play hard to get

1. They just aren't interested; When somebody plays hard to get, they are probably not interested in you at all. Its plain simple and nomatter how hard you try to draw their attention, you are just not their type. Heres some good advice for you, the truth can hurt sometimes.

2. They are not yet ready; Somebody may be interested in you but the mere fact that they are not ready for a relationship can really spoil things. You see, some people are just recovering from a broken heart while others had a nasty experience which has caused them to look at relationships in a negative angle. Some people are not ready for a relationship because they have career prospects in mind too, while others are not yet of age. Many reasons, many angles................ it is your call.

3. There is someone else; You can't ignore the fact that the person plays hard to get because there is someone else in their lives.Plain and simple.

4. They are observing you; When a person turns you down it doesn't always mean that they have rejected you completely but it can also mean that they want to be sure that they are making the right decision. So sometimes people may play hard to get because they are actually observing your qualities, your personality and your other attributes. The thing is, before anyone can commit to relationship they have to be sure they are making the right decision.

5. They know your character; Some people play hard to get because they already know the persuers character as simply being bad. Plain and simple.

 Handling a rejection

It is never easy being rejected especially by someone you have had high hopes for. But the thing is, everyone is entitled to make their own decision whether it may seem wise or not. Heres some good advice for you, if you ever get rejected.........MOVE ON!! but also remember that a NO could mean NO but at the same time a NO could mean YES. All the best folks!!!


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