Love and Money

When does it come in the way??

Some people feel that money just seriously comes in the way of a relationship and not in a positive way but in a negative way. You know, it really isn't hard to understand this because we see it sometimes on T.V how a guy suddenly becomes garbage because he doesn't have a coin or how a guy would rather date a rich lady just to run away from poverty. But this is not only what we talking about here, we want to really know why money even gets in the way of a relationship? Or maybe, shouldn't money actually increase the relationship bond. Heres some good advice for you, it all depends. Lets exactly understand how money seriously gets in the way of love in my opinion.

How money gets in the way of love

1. Time; When two people are Married or are heading towards that, making or finding Money may take much of your time. I mean lets face it, you may be working overtime just to provide the perfect life for you and your family without actually realizing how old you are getting. There is valuable time getting lost to making money which maybe could have been used for family.

2. When you want to settle; When you want to settle down with your future spouse, you will soon realize that you don't actually have the money you would have wanted to really start a family. Its not that you don't have money but you just don't have enough of it. Sometimes that can cause a problem not only to you personally but even to the person you want to get Married to. Here's some good advice for you, don't lose yourself.

3. When the family doesn't approve; Some families are well to do in terms of having the best amounts of money and in some cases, they wouldn't want their son or daughters getting into a relationship with somebody who isn't well to do. The reason is that maybe they are concerned he just won't provide the life that they want for their daughter or if its the other way round, they just don't want to be linked to the lower class.

4. Decisions on how to spend it; When two people are Married, they obviously have their own desires in the use of hard earned money for the family. However, many times today disputes between Marriage mates is because of Money. Sometimes there's an argument on what shouldn't have been bought or what should have..In other cases, its about why the money was spent in a certain way when it should have been spent like this, it can get really ugly at times.

5. Change in attitude; In some cases money gets in the way of a relationship when because of changes in circumstances the once strong relationship begins collapsing. For instance, if there has been a job lose by one of the spouses in the family, this can really cause a strain to everyone. This would mean adjusting to a lifestyle that nobody is used to and being embarassed at times because people have to watch your downfall. At times, even the atitude of a Marriage mate can change towards the other. Hard times indeed.

Good advice on Money and Love

Money in a relationship is important because lets face it, you want to go out for drinks, you want to start a family and raise kids. That's evidence enough that it is surely important but however, should it be too important? Should money be placed so highly that you have to sacrifice things that you know you cherish? that's really a personal question for you but here's some good advice for you folks, put Money in its proper place.