Dating an Unemployed Man?

Dating is really an enjoyable moment for anybody especially when they are looking to enjoy a really good future together. However, lets face it sometimes we all have expectations and whatever the case we also have hopes and dreams. If you are a lady who is dating an unemployed man, you definitely may have your expectations right? But is dating an unemployed man really a bad thing as many people think. Well heres some good advice for you, Read ON!!

Is it all that Bad?

Dating is all about getting to know somebody with the hope of finding that one person you would like to spend the rest of your life with. Well its not easy to say yes neither is it easy to say no about this topic but much depends on how both the guy and lady feel about it. Lets look at the following situations shall we?

1. When the lady is working; Alot of times these days you might just find that a lady who has a successful career is dating an unemployed man. Some ladies in such a situations dont feel its a bad thing while in other occasions a lady may have a really big problem with it. For some guys they feel so inferior that it gradually affects even the way the couple relates with each other. The thing is, if the couple feel it isnt a bad thing then there isn't a problem but if one of them feels its a bad thing whether its a man or woman then that can create tension. Heres some good advice for you, know how you really feel?

2. When the lady has high expectations; Some ladies have high expectations about the relationship, we all do. They want their man to buy them things and make them feel loved. They also want to show to the world that they have a man who is not just a man but THE MAN. Well, when a lady has such high expectations, Yes it can be a problem dating an unemployed man whether they met each other while he was unemployed or whether they dated but he later lost his job. Ofcourse it all depends, some ladies may be willing to sacrifice for a while.

3. When the lady is being persued by someone else; When a lady is being pursued by another suitor who actually has a job, it can be hard for some ladies to stick to there unemployed man. Ofcourse much depends on the ladies firmness to stick to her man. Ofcourse, there are times when some ladies feel they are running out of time in life and would rather take the chance with someone else. Whether its fair or not thats a choice they have made but what could it tell us, well in my opinion maybe it just tells us that being unemployed can be a bad thing at times.

Something we can learn

Much depends on the lady and the man in most cases. if they love each other very much then it shouldn't really be a problem. But it is also good to remember that in this world we all have to make a living somehow. In my opinion should a man and woman get married, the man should take charge of providing for the families needs. ofcourse situations vary around the world but heres some good advice for you, ask yourself these following questions.

• Is my man showing any effort in finding a job?
• What do I you really want out of a relationship?
• If my man found a good job, would that make me love him more or would it just make my man hate me?

Anyway, its just my opinion. All the best!!