Telling someone how you really feel?

You like somebody, what do you do?

There is somebody you really like out there very much that it hurts so much that you don't have the courage to let out the truth. Heres some good advice for you, you are not alone. You have two options, you can either keep it within yourself and let time passes until it dissappears or you can gather up your courage and actually go and tell them.

The fear of rejection

This is definitely the number one reason people never want to tell somebody they like how they truly feel, because of the fear of rejection. We all have this kind of fear and the truth is, being rejected is never a good feeling at all. It could be that in our minds that we know we want to tell them but at the same time we have that feeling that we might just get rejected. How do you get around this?

Well for starters, if you really like them as you say you do then nothing should hold you back unless you have a really good reason that they wont accept you. Normally, we just create stuff in our minds that make it seem we will get rejected when infact we wont. To get around this here's some good advice for you, gather your courage and make it work.

How to tell them

There are many ways you can tell them and they dont have to be the most famous ways, the thing is you want to get the truth out. The thing is you have to go to them and tell them how you feel and what is on your mind. If you two have been friends for some time or just know each other, you can initiate a conversation and begin expressing yourself freely. When getting the truth out to them, dont scare or alarm them with words like "I LOVE YOU VERY MUCH!!!" all of a sudden. Put them in a comfortable mood and be tactiful in expressing yourself.

Start by saying something about the wonderful things you like about them. Don't bore them with a whole lot of things but just have somewhere to begin your story. Then, when they see that you have something you want to say, let it all out. Expect anything and always remember there isn't anything wrong in wanting to find a partner you will spend the rest of your life with. All the best!!!