Cheating on your best friend

Is it Really Worth it??

Heres a picture for you, you have a best friend whose been dating a certain person for a while and you know exactly how much they like each other. However, for some very unknown reason you start feeling drawn to that person and so does the person. Infact, you begin to fall in Love, at least that's what you think. But the truth is, you try to hide your feelings even though most of the time you have to act as their chaperon when they go out on dates. One day the unexpected happens, your best friends love bird confesses to you how much they like you, infact he/she even suggests having a relationship. What do you think? is it worth it? Heres some good advice for you, Lets dive in a bit further shall we.

How does it happen?

You have obviously been best friends for a long time, I mean thats why you are called best friends right? You sometimes remember those wonderful moments you spent together and the meaningful sacrifices you made...you can't refuse how much value that has added to the both of you. But then came the third person.

When you come to think of it, this thing has  happened quit a number of times between best friends. Actually, sometimes it may seem scary on what you hear.But why does a best friend decide to cheat on his/her best friend at all? Well in my opinion, this is something which has alot to do on how your friend values the friendship. I mean think of it, why would someone interfere with something so precious to his/her best friend without thinking about the consequences after. But then again, it isnt always the case because there are always unique situations.

However, when it comes to the world of dating and getting to find a Marriage mate, everybody has the right to choose whom they want to be with whether the decision is bad or good. However, the question still stands, how does it actually happen?

Well lets say Mary and Angela are best friends and Angela is dating a guy named Rick. How does Mary find herself cheating with Rick. When we say cheating we are simply restricting it to having a decent relationship. Well it all begins from Mary and Rick spending more than the usual time together. Maybe perhaps Angela is never there. Or, it could begin because Rick has grown tired of Angela and being the player his known to be he tries to target her best friend. It could be also, that maybe by accident Mary and Rick found themselves in an uncompromising situation. There are alot of other ways how it happens but the question we should ask is, Is it Right????

Cheating on your Best Friend, Right or Wrong?

Cheating is never right! One thing you should ask yourself if you are in such a situation, would I feel okay if my best friend cheated on me? Ofcourse you may have a good reason why you are secretly dating your best friends guy or girl but the point is, if it were you how would you feel? As long as they are together you are interfering in their relationship and distancing the two from each other. Here's some good advice for you, if you really value your best friendship, dont interfere with your best friends happy relationship. Its kind of cruel if you come to think of it. But then every situation is unique and depending on circumstances, we cant always judge. However, stay out of trouble.

Thats just my opinion!