When in love with someone else

Making a choice between the two

You have been dating someone for a while and everyone knows how much you care for each other right? Ofcourse, you have had alot of wonderful times but you soon realize that actually, you are more inlove with someone else. What can you possibly do? well heres some good advice for you, important decisions are never easy. Who do you choose, the one you have been dating for a while or the new found love. Lets dive into this shall we.

4 Questions you need to ask yourself

Before you make any rush decisions in your life which may either cost you dearly or maybe make you more happier, you need to really ask yourself these 4 important questions. Heres some good advice for you...READ ON.

1. How long have you known the other?; You see folks, dating is all about getting to know somebody. As a rule of thumb, the longer you usually know somebody the most likely you will be confident of your decision to either accept them or reject them. If you have fallen in love with somebody else, you have to be sure that you know them well enough to give them your heart. 

2. Is it love or a crush?; You have to admit that sometimes we just have a short crush for somebody and then we call it love. The truth is folks, love doesn't really die but as for a crush it does die at some point. If thats the case with you, heres some good advice for you, dont fully rely on how you feel but consider the possibilities that you may be losing somebody really special should you go for your new found love or should you reject them. It can go either way.

3. Is your current relationship shaky?; You see folks, when your current relationship is on the rocks it is easy for us to want to seek comfort from elsewhere. Heres some good advice for you, relationship could be shaky sometimes but that doesn't mean it cant be fixed. Ofcourse, thats for you to decide. However, with your new found love in the picture, that could possibly answer the question as to why you have fallen for someone else. But again, is it real?? you be the answer of that.

4. Are you being selfish?; We have to admit that sometimes we just think of ourselves without considering the feelings of the current person we are dating. Heres some good advice for you, ask yourself these questions 1) am i being too harsh 2) how does the other feel  and 3) how would I feel if I were in his/her shoes?

Being in love

Being in love with someone is never a crime but we must always be able to distinguish real love from attraction or infatuation. You want to be sure that whatever decision you make will never cost you but will make you look back and say that you made the right decision. Heres some good advice for you, make your decision count today. All the best!!