When you discover he/she isnt what you expected

We obviously have expectations in our minds about the perfect man or women. However, we all know the truth right, nobody is perfect. But still, sometimes we just feel tempted to hold really high expectations for somebody and when we actually begin getting to know that person, we either get dissapointed or we get really overwhelmed in a positive way. Heres some good advice for you, it could go either way. Lets dive into this shall we.

In which situation are you in?

1. Overwhelmed in a positive way; If the person you start dating with a hope of Marriage turns out to be somebody you never really expected in a positive way, then that could be a plus for you. Maybe you pictured them as reserved, self centered, boring or something else and then you soon discover after getting to know them that they are totally different, could be good for you right? Ofcourse, that's the beauty of getting to know somebody because you can't know someone by merely just looking.

2. When you are disappointed; Lets say you had really high expectations for somebody but soon discover that they aren't nearly as half as what you expected. Maybe because they have good looks, your expectations were they would be smart and sophisticated maybe...but whatever the case, your expectations weren't met and that can be really disappointing right? Well, here some good advice for you, maybe getting to know them better will make things a little better.

Seeing beyond your expectations

We have to understand that there is nobody in this world who have the full package. When our expectations are not fully met, there are two things you can do either walk away or give the person a chance. The second option is the most reasonable because you cant always rely on your expectations for everything, unless there is a genuine reason to. However, in any relationship what are you really looking for? in most cases, you want to know somebody and find someone you can spend the rest of life with.

Getting to know somebody takes time and qualities you should be looking for is somebody who is loving, respectful, and considerate just to mention a few. So when getting to know somebody, if they are generally okay, you can still give them a chance can't you? Ofcourse the choice is yours. Heres some good advice for you, you can do it. All the best!!