Married to someone you dont love

The sad reality

Being married to someone doesn't always mean they love each other. That is really a sad reality and these days it seems to be happening quit often. In my opinion I can think of a few situations that have led some people to enter Marriage not out of love but out of some kind of necessity. But to begin with, when two people get Married to each other do they always have to love each other? In this world we live in, there are occasions when that may happen but one still may ask, why does Marriage without true love actually happen? Here's some good advice for you, read on.

Marriage to someone you dont love

People end up marrying somebody they don't love due to a number of reasons and that's a fact. One of the reasons lies perhaps because they have been rejected so many times by so many people, and the first person who shows at least an interest in them automatically becomes the jackpot winner. But in my opinion I would like to believe that the reasons differ from both man and woman.

1. A mans reasons

One of the reasons why men end up Marrying somebody they don't love could probably be because it was an arranged Marriage.Lets face it, some cultures in this world practice this form of bringing two people together but such a union tends to be complicated if the two don't love each other at all. Secondly, sometimes men may be forced to marry a lady they don't love simply because they are forced to do it. Here's an example, if a man commits a serious mistake and gets a lady pregnant, some families wont put the man off the hook and will definitely ask him to take responsibility of getting married instead of bringing embarrassment and reproach to the family. In my opinion these are the only reasons why I think a man would get married to somebody he doesnt love but they could be plenty.

2. A ladys reasons

Apart from the reason of having an arranged marriage, most times the ladies internal clocking system starts warning them that they are getting old and if they don't act fast they may spend their years lonely. So, if somebody walks up to them, as long as his available then why not? Another reason is security...ladies may want security and if the man has that kind of security then even if she doesn't really love him, they feel its still okay. Other ladies Marry men they don't love because they think they can learn to fall in love with the person in Marriage, but sometimes it just turns into another sad reality.

What to do?

Is divorce the answer if you are Married to someone you don't love? Here's some good advice for you, it ain't. Most people would recommend that move but then. think about the children and think about yourself and your spouse. Being single parents isn't easy and watching your children grow without their parent around can damage their emotional and mental state. Children also have feelings you know. But then, are there possibilities that you can at least give the Marriage a chance and hope for the best? That's a decision you really have to think about. In my opinion, the only reason for a divorce should be when somebody cheats on you with someone else, anyway that's my opinion. All the best!!