Getting over a past mistake

The feeling of Worthlessness

Have you ever committed a big, huge mistake that each time you just think of it you just feel so uneasy. That can happen to anybody because the truth is, we all make mistakes. Mistakes can be big or small however, as long as we feel so bad about it for a very long time that our normal living becomes affected then there could be a big problem. Heres some good advice for you, if you are feeling worthless because of a past mistake you have to realize we all make mistakes.

A mistake you made in the past

Ofcourse the thought of it is killing you deep inside and the feeling of worthlessness is just growing inside you each and everyday. What really are some of the big and small mistakes we can ever make which can really affect us that even our own lives becomes somehow halted. The definition could be relative to different people but lets just say if it negatively affects you deeply as well as others around you, then it was a deep mistake. There are practical suggestion you can do to let go;

1. Apologize; If you made a mistake and you know it affected others deeply and also affected you, you can always start with a sincere apology and hope you can be forgiven. When people extend forgiveness to you, you will defintely feel refreshed.

2. Forgive yourself; Dont keep beating yourself up for so long that your life becomes halted and everything you ever loved doing just vanishes. You have to give yourself a chance and realize you are only human. Take time to reflect about things in a deep way. Heres some good advice for you, forgive yourself and let go.

3. Don't repeat the same mistake; You should know that repeating the same mistake on and on will just create more problems. We need to fight it and keep on fighting it. Thats just the truth.

Reflecting by yourself

This advice blog article does not condone mistakes that we all know are deliberate but mistakes are things we don't mean to do or say. Take some time to seat down and reflect on things by yourself and see what you should have done better and where you failed. Getting over a past mistake will require you to take action. You have to avoid by all means dwelling in the past and trying yourself to move forward. Take the load and throw it into the ocean because it happened and there is nothing you can do to reverse the past.

Here's some good advice for you, you need to move forward and reflect. Reflecting means drawing lessons and trying to avoid the same wrong in the future. All the best!!