Monday, 30 December 2013

When you feel you will always be alone

Negative feelings inside

There are some people in life who haven't really had it well in the world of relationships. They ofcourse have dated a couple of times but things haven't really worked out well for them always resulting in a painful break up. Others have actually never even dated in their life and even though they have wanted to, they just feel like nobody is really interested in them. Heres some good advice for you, if you are one of those people? you are not alone. Lets dive into this further!!

When you feel nobody cares

Yes, it is so easy to feel negative feelings in your mind right? Just think of it, everyday you walk down the street or take a bus or fly on the plane, you always see couples together happily showing affection to each other. Most times you may even ask yourself this question "Why can't that be me?" When you think of the many times you have tried to enter a relationship or when you remember those painful break-ups you went through, you just feel nobody really cares.

Having negative feelings is normal but the truth is, you have to control those feelings. First, you must realize in the first place that there are people in this world who genuinly care about you. You also have to realize that the reason you may be single could be because the right person hasn't showed up yet. But heres some good advice for you, if you continue to allow negative feelings to take control of your life heres what it can do to you.

1. Hate couples; You might start hating people who are already in a relationship simply because you are not in one yet. That can happen alot sometimes and you dont want to be a part of it because there are alot of couples out there in this world.

2. You might shut yourself out; Yes you might end up shutting yourself out from reality which can really have heavy consequences. That is something you shouldn't even think of doing at all.

3. You might reject any possibility of being in a relationship; Because you are so negative about yourself, there is always a chance that you would never want to be in a relationship...EVER!!

Ending the negative feelings

Start by talking about your feelings to a close friend or relative, it wouldn't hurt to pour your feelings out to them hoping to receive the needed comfort. Another thing is to remember that you will not always be alone because with time you will find the right person. Getting involved in hobbies and keeping busy all the time will truly help get something out of your system. Heres some good advice for you, only you can make it happen....All the best!!


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