Tuesday, 22 October 2013

The Value of Waiting

Patience is key

Finding somebody you are going to get Married to and spend the rest of your life with surely is everybody's desire, well at least almost everybody's. You see, it isn't always easy finding that one true love and for obvious reasons, we live in a world were people come from different backgrounds, have had different experiences and are just different. However, heres some good advice for you, whatever you decide to do, do not rush. Learn to exercise patience in this area, lets dive into this shall we.

Why waiting is the best option

You know people have various reasons of not exercising patience when it comes to relationships. You see, when we say being patient we are not saying that you should seat back and relax and just wait for things to happen. Ofcourse you can make an effort to find that special person, but the thing is we dont want to act in desperation as if there was no hope. How do people act in desperation, well here are two common situations they do that.

a). Accepting anything that comes; Some people because they are so desperate for somebody in their lives, they will tend to get involved with people whom they know fully well arent the right persons for them. Heres some good advice for you, we dont want to make any rush decisions.

b). Getting involved too quickly; Some people rush into a relationship too quickly without really knowing what they are getting into. Because of desperation they never take any caution whatsover resulting in them getting really hurt should things not really work out. Heres some good advice for you, have some breaks.

What are the benefits of waiting and being patient when it comes to finding the right person to be with. Well remember, we are not saying that you should wait by seating back and not taking any action, but being patient means not being too desperate but being optimistic that things will turn out okay. The following are some of the benefits namely;

1. Peace of mind; When you have that waiting atitude in you, you will have that peace of mind knowing fully well that things will turn out okay one day.

2. It allows you to grow; Waiting gives you an opportunity to grow emotionally, psychologically and mentally. When you finally reach that stage of maturity you will soon realize that you are better equiped to handle relationship problems or challenges in a calm and collected way.

3. You get to find the ONE!! Because of not rushing but being patient, you soon realize that the person you eventually meet, is the ONE.

All this is just my opinion folks but whatever you decide to do, stay safe. All the Best!!!


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