Use your realistic lensWe all have limitations in life and that's that. We cant always make the rules, we can't always choose where we want to go, who we choose to be and how things may end. Ofcourse, in my opinion most times the wrong decisions we make costs us dearly. However, heres some good advice for you, if we are going to do things properly in our lives we have to know our limitations. But what exactly do we mean? heres some good advice for you......READ ONNNN!!!
What are your limitations?We all have certain limitations and when we talk about limitations we are simply talking about your weaknesses that make it difficult if not impossible for you to achieve a certain goal. There are certain times we just don't have the right tools or skills to get something done the way we want it to be and thus that becomes our limitation in a way.
Take for instance, you want to embark on an important project. Now, you seat down and realize that you need a loan from the bank that can help you achieve your goal. Ofcourse, getting a loan will help you achieve your goal but the only limitation you have is that you can't guarantee yourself that you will get the loan and whats worse, if you were denied that loan...you just dont have enough strings secularly to find the necessary funds for the project. That becomes you limitation.
So, alot of times we may actually be faced in such a predicament and learning to accept our limitations can ease us off from all the pain and anxiety of not making things work. However, that doesn't mean giving up. Heres some good advice for you, lets dive into this further shall we.
Not giving upEven when you may have certain limitations it doesn't necesarily mean that you should completely write things off. Take for instance, you may not be good at public speaking at the work place but that doesn't necessarily mean you can't read a speach or you cant even write a speech. In this world, sometimes there are ways to get around things without hurting yourself or anybody else. Heres some good advice for you, giving up is entirely your decision.
But whether or not you decide to give up you always have to recognize yourself using the realistic lens. Take for instance, somebody tells you that a certain job is looking for certain qualifications which you know you dont have. Although there have been few instances when people not qualified got picked for that same job, you still shouldn't put your hopes too high. You have to carry that realistic lens with you and realize what is realistically achievable and what is not.
However, even when you carry yourself each day knowing you have certain limitations you shouldn't really give up. Heres some good advice for you, you can do it. All the best!!