5 signs your partner is unhappy and you dont know it

Appearances can be deceiving

In any relationship there are situations or phases where somebody just isn't happy. Ofcourse when you go out or hang out the person you are in a relationship with may appear happy but deep inside they are eating up. Well here's some good advice for you, appearances can be deceiving. This can be a really big problem to anybody and if left unchecked can spell really serious trouble in future. Well heres the good news, you can actually detect this problem before its too late. Here are 5 signs that show that your partner actually isn't happy.

5 signs they aren't happy with the relationship

1. They are less of themselves; If you have been in the relationship with somebody for a while then you should know beyond reasonable doubt when your companion suddenly changes. For example, If they were talking alot then they gradually stop talking then there maybe something wrong. There is definitely good reason to become concerned.

2. When they tell you; They may tell you to your face that they aren't happy at all. Ofcourse, we may be tempted to say to ourselves "Oh he always says that" or "Oh she always says that" and before you know it, they ask for a breakup. You see, when somebody tells you, take it seriously and dont take it for granted.

3. They talk about their past relationships; If somebody keeps talking about their past relationship maybe not to you directly but through a friend or relative, then there is really a high chance that they aren't really happy about what they have at current. Anyway, that's just my opinion.

4. When you detect you are becoming distant; Ofcourse you may be together but somehow you just feel that you are apart. I mean think of it, would two people become distant if they were really happy? Ofcourse there may be different circumstance but Chances are, he/she isn't happy. Its your call.

5. When they would rather spend time with somebody else; This doesn't need any explaining!

What you should do

You have to try to correct the problem by getting to the route cause of it. Always remember that it is never easy to solve a problem that took months to build in a day. It is very important to get the truth out from  them and try to understand everything. Could it be that they are not happy about you? Or could it be that they are not happy about life in general and they feel that a relationship to them at the moment is just inappropriate? After you get the truth out then would there be need to act on it.

Whatever the case, making your partner happy could be a process but in some cases you may not really have to put in so much. Heres some good advice for you, don't give up.