Why I always fail

My relationship never works

If you are one of those people out there who are constantly complaining that each time they date somebody out there, it just never works...you are far from being alone. Many people out there are just so sad that almost every relationship they have just fails to work this time around. Others have gone through over 6 relationships within a short spun of time all ending with a break-up. Well heres some good advice for you, its never too late to change things.

Some reasons relationships fail

There are alot of reasons why certain people excel in relationships while others just dont. The thing is, when it comes to the issue of dating in my opinion this should almost lead to Marriage. Heres some good advice for you, there are basically 3 reasons why some peoples relationships just dont work.

1. Seriousness; Some people are not just committed to making their relationships work. Instead of finding time to be with their date whether its in person or over the phone, they are just never there. That can cause a serious problem indeed. Others just enter a relationship for mere fun without looking at it as a long term activity that can lead to something meaningful.

2. Differences; There are notable differences that may exist between the people dating. Differences in values, goals and interests can lead some to fight quarrel and even breakup. Couples have to be able to yield in some circumstances when its necessary.

3. Undesirable qualities or traits; Some people dont have the good qualities and traits that can sustain a relationship. Some easily get envious, jealous, angry, possessive and abusive in a relationship. Such qualities can only spell trouble.

Good advice to make it work

First things first you have to follow the three pointers above but then another thing is, you have to take action. Some people may actually say that my relationship still fails even when I do all the right things. Well, while that may not be 100% true there is still need for improvement. Notable things you can do is;

-Understand what you havent been doing well or could do better
-Understand the reasons you are always given by the people who break up with you and try to work on them
-Understand that it may not always be you causing the breakups but its also them
-Understand that you have to be patient and dont expect immediate results
-Understand that a relationship will one day work for you, so dont give up

All the best