Resolving a dispute

Differences are always ugly

We all have differences, whether its with a friend or our date or our relatives, differences always happen. The thing is, we all think differently and we all act differently and all come from different backgrounds. However, differences are not always taken lightly, infact they can get really personal....That's right, most of the time they become ugly. But just what is the problem? well heres some good advice for you folks we can resolve any difference we may face with anybody. Lets just look at how we can do that shall we.

Steps to resolving disputes

Disputes between neighbors or friends are always unavoidable. We live in a world where these things happen and they can be big disputes or small disputes. But whatever type they are we have to take the necessary steps to resolve them or they can get really, really ugly.

Step 1.Get to the route of the problem; Most times differences arise because of a difference in opinion or understanding. One of you feels he has the right answer while the other feels that they have the righter answer to a certain problem...Before you know it an argument errupts. However, sometimes it may not just be a difference in opinion that has caused the indifference but could also be the mood of someone that day, a situation any of you are going through or even just a personal feeling. So what is key here is really getting to understand your friend and seeing whether they may need help in the other areas of life they may going through. If somebody said something bad to you, did they really mean it? or was it a mistake on their part?

Step 2.Taking the first initiative; Most times when there is a difference we usually like to blame the other person for causing it. Ofcourse, it may be true that they caused it but usually these days, nobody wants to take the blame for anything. If you really want to resolve this difference, one of you has to take the first step in restoring the friendship you had. Heres some good advice for you, why not that be you.

Step 3. Forget about it and move on; Yes it would help if we just try to bring things back to normal by simply trying our level best of forgetting about it and restoring a friendship. Not easy but would surely help if we tried.

Disputes in a relationship

Differences that arise between people that are Married or are heading towards that can be really hard to solve at times. However, the principle still applies, we want to restore the closness and love that existed before. Now, if there is that possibility that the relationship could be given a second chance, why not take that chance. Ofcourse, circumstances are different but the last thing we want is to be enemies forever.

Here's some good advice for you, you can actually make it work. All the best!!