Sunday 10 November 2013

Is Age just a number?

A question that affects some couples

This is a question many people in this world can ask themselves simply because they are either in a relationship with somebody older or they are contemplating doing so. Well, the thing is ageing is something we are all going to face whether we like it or not, but then why does age have to be an issue when it comes to the dating world? Well for some, dating a man way older than themselves can be a real problem while for others, dating an older woman could be a problem too. Well whatever it is, you have to admit that age and dating is a really big problem. Heres some good advice for you, you can fall victim to this yourself too.


Why its a problem?

1. A problem for teens; Well for teenagers, the real issue especially since they are growing up is because they are still young. Ofcourse that is absolutely true because they are generally inexperienced and they need genuine guidance from loving adults to help deal with their feelings. Dating too young can be a real problem and thats when age can be called into question. However, this was the easy part, lets dive into the harder part shall we.

2. The problem for men; Guys who are young and are dating older women or are considering dating older women may be pressured not too. Well lets say a guy is 10 years younger than a lady, can that be a problem? Well some people think it is while others don't. Well whatever the case, its happening. But where do people see the problem? Well in some lands society just doesnt accept it while in other lands, people will tend to wonder why the young man has taken such a course when there are many other ladies around. Others on the other hand wont be bothered about it. However, whatever the case people have their own set of opinions.

3. The problem for ladies; Some ladies will may be seeing younger guys or guys who are old enough to be their grandpas. Well, people see that as a problem while others just don't.

Is Age really a problem?

Much of it depends on how the couple relate to each other. The thing about aging which we cant run away from is that in most cases people of different ages have different levels of maturity. So, if they are able to relate well with each other and realize what their difference in ages brings, then should it really be a problem? Well it depends on them. So, here is the bottom line folks, differences in ages wont necessarily be a problem as long as the couple fully get to understand what their decision will bring to them both in future and as long as they are both okay with it. Heres some good advice for you, its your choice. All the best!!
 

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