Monday 4 November 2013

Why some couples never stop argueing

Fights all the time

Couples these days are just fighting so much we dont know whether its fashion these days or its something else. You see folks, we all know exactly what arguments are right but sometimes its so difficult to really tell why its so difficult for some to stop fighting. Heres some good advice for you, whichever way you look at it, fights are never good. But lets dive into this shall we.


5 reasons why some couples can't stop argueing

1. Jealousy; Some couples are trapped in the web of jealousy, well atleast one of them. You see, even if a person is talking with the opposite sex that doesn't necessarily mean they are going out secretly. Lets face reality, if we are always jealous about our love talking with the opposite sex that can really erupt into an arguement. Well unless you have a reason to always be jealous, heres some good advice for you it could ruin your relationship.

2. Thinking they re always right; Many people argue because they think they are always right. In my opinion that can happen to everybody but the problem is how far some people take it. If two people think they are always right then nobody can be corrected and thus leading to a serious argument.

3. Money; Many couples today argue about money. Money can really bring two people apart if left unchecked. Heres some good advice for you, money should be kept in its proper place. When money gets in the way that can really create alot of tension.

4. Deprived attention; If someone feels he/she is being deprived of some quality attention then that can really create some frustration. When frustration builds because of that feeling of lack of love, communication and affection then that can really lead to a real serious argument. Heres some good advice for you, this could be your reason too.

5. Guilt; Some people dont react well to their personal mistakes and that feeling of worthlessnes just creates a tension in themselves that sometimes will spill over to others around them including those close to them. That can create an argument and that can create further tension.

Resolving an argument 

When it comes to resolving an argument it is always important to remember that arguments will never take us anywhere if they continue. We need to resolve them....AND FAST. To start with when resolving an argument nobody wants to come out as a winner but the point is we want to settle matters whether it works against us or for us. One important thing is to be ready to yield to another persons opinion or suggestions and not to always get out of your way in proving you were right. Another thing is to remember to calm yourself down and don't easily allow your anger to skyrocket leading to more dire consequences.

Which ever way you look at it, you can do it. All the best!!


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