Thursday 28 November 2013

Things you should never do in a Relationship

You may have done it yourself?

Relationships are such a wonderful time to get to know each other but many times there may be things we do that can only see us out the back door. Heres some good advice for you, it can happen to anybody. However, when it comes to the world of relationships, what are some donts we should never, ever do. Well read on folks.


DOnts in relationship

1. Dont Cheat; Well this is pretty obvious and we all know that cheating is bad. Whatever reason you may have for doing it, the worst part is you are hurting the one close to you. Heres a question you should ask yourself if you have fallen into such a trap. Would you be happy to hear that the person you are cheating on did the same thing to you?

2. Dont speak ill behind their back; There is nothing wrong in seeking constructive advice from somebody whom you trust about problems faced in your relationship. However, it isn't really a good thing to speak ill about your partner to others, unless you ofcourse have a very good reason for that. The best way to sort problems out is to confront each other and talk. Heres some good advice for you, take that step today.

3. Dont be too busy; Always find time to be with the person you care so dearly about. Ofcourse, we shouldn't let career get in the way but it is always good, to have time to discuss and spend time together. Heres some good advice for you folks, communication is key.

4. Dont compare; You know, sometimes we seat down and ask ourselves how we wish our person was alot like her or alot like him. That is sometimes healthy because we all want the best in ourselves and the best for our loved ones. But it is far more important to appreciate the qualities that your love has especially if they really arent all that bad. If you notice that there are bad traits mushrooming in them, you can always try to correct the situation and help them improve. Ofcourse, if they can't change in the long run that can seriously mean trouble.

5. Dont be too possessive; Dont be the kind of person who wants to know everything about everything about the person you are in a relationship with. If they receive a call don't always be suspicious and ask who called. Ofcourse you may have a right to know but it shouldn't be too extreme. You see, you want to give each other some level of freedom with boundaries. But that doesn't mean you should be posessive. Heres some good advice for you, if you are like that get a hold of yourself.

All the best!!

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