Tips of Good Friends

True Friends

True friends are really hard to find these days but that is not to say you will never find those kind of friends. Everybody needs a friend whether in a small way or big way, humans are social beings and they want to be able to communicate freely about their problems and about their feelings. Imagine how miserable life would be without friends by your side. However, everybody knows that not all friends are good friends and not all friends are bad friends either. Heres some good advice for you, finding a friend isn't always the hard part but finding good friends is. Lets dive dipper shall we.

Good friends and Bad friends

Good friends are just as they are good friends. A good friend is the type of friend who is not just your acquaintance but they are something more. They are the kind who like you for who you are and are willing to give you advice even if it hurts you. A true friend wouldn't be happy when you fail and are always willing to be by your side in both good times and bad. Ofcourse, even good friends make mistakes because we are all human, a good friend will admit that they made a mistake and will try as much as possible to make amends. What about a bad friend, they are just the opposite of the good friends.

Bad friends may be fun to be with sometimes if not most, but they usually make you fall into things that may either destroy you or make you a bad person. Bad friends don't really care about your welfare and are usually concerned about what selfish gains they can get out of a friendship with you. Heres some good advice for you, avoid the bad friends at all costs.

Making a decision

You definitely want to have a good friend as your friend right? but too often sometimes people fall into the trap of associating with people who can be bad influence for them. Many think that whatever there friends do wont necessarily affect them. While this may seem true for a while, eventually you will find that bad traits from bad friends can easily rub onto you.

So when choosing a friend and making a final decision on the kind of friend you will choose be sure to ask yourself these kinds of questins.

-What kind friend will build me positively
-What kind of friend will instil in me good qualities
-What kind of friend will make me a better person to other friends, society and family
-What are other peoples opinions on my choice of friends especially my families opinion
-Are these friends interested in me or there are some selfish reasons behind it
-Are these friends willing to make sacrifices for me
-Do these friends really care for me at all

Asking such kinds of questions will actually broaden your mind and help you choose the right friends for yourself. Heres some good advice for you, choose the right kinds of friends for yourself today.