Monday, 16 September 2013

How to choose between two people

There are times in our lives when we have that all important choice we have to make. Imagine there are two different people you know very well. You really want to date one of them but you are not sure which one to choose because they are so evenly matched. Such a scenario can even become more complicated if you have to choose between your Ex or another person. Pretty tight right? here's some good advice for you, you can only choose one. But in the first place, how does such a thing happen? and how can you make the right choice?

How does someone get into such a situation?

If its a lady, thats so easy to explain because most of the time ladies will recieve different proposals from so many guys and then have to come up with a decision. But it can become quite complicated if the lady likes not just one guy but two guys and then has trouble chooseing which one to commit to. Like earlier mentioned it can get very complicated if one of those guys is an Ex.

Sometimes, when we break-up with somebody we tend to meet other people we think we can Marry one day. But just before the relationship becomes official, then pops up the Ex who wants to get back together which can really, really complicate things in choosing who you want to be with. But whether its guys or ladies who face this situation the principle is the same, an important decision has to be made which will hurt one person and make the other happy. Really big decision indeed, but how do you make a decision? and make the right one. Heres some good advice for you, read on.

Making the right decision

Choosing between two people is never an easy task because deep inside you know you like both of them and both of them are willing to be with you. Well in making the right decision, here are 5 tips you can employ to ensure you are on the right track.

1. How do you feel; In principle, which one do you like more? Ofcourse we both know that it is not an easy question to answer but whether you like it or not, there has to be an answer. You see if you keep on saying I like both of them, then you wont be able to come up with an answer and that can only mean a dead end.

2. Who is best for you; Between the two, who will bring out the best in you. When we say bringing out the best in you we mean who between the two will make you happier, will bring out good qualities in you and will look out for you. Take for example, you wont choose a person who encourages you to engage in something that is clearly wrong.

3. What do others think; People always have something to say, especially something bad. But to avoid falling into this trap, why not ask a a trusted friend or experienced adult about who they think is the best person for you. Ofcourse, you get to make the final choice in all aspects.

4. Who between the two do you see a spouse?; Believe it or not, dating is all about getting to know each other so that one day you can settle down together and get Married. So between the two, whom between the two is more likely to make a good spouse should you want to get Married? Remember, you have to look for Marriage material folks.

5. Which one is more mature; Might sound harsh but the truth is, dating is for mature people. Ofcourse not everyone is at the same level but having somebody who is mature will ensure that your relationship is secure and atleast you can be happier.

You have to realize that the final decision rests in you and nobody will force you what to do because you are the holder of which route you want to go through in life. Heres some good advice for you, make the right choice today.


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