Tuesday 29 October 2013

Why you cant forget him or her

Memories from the past

There is definitely somebody you used to court with the hope of one day seeing the both of you spend the rest of your life together, but sadly things couldn't work out. Ofcourse that can happen alot in this world because these days everything is just so uncertain. But you know what even hurts the most? is the fact that no matter how hard you try you cant just forget that person. Well here's some good advice for you, some memories are just hard to forget.

Reasons you can't forget

The reasons you cant forget is simple, it could either be because you loved the person so much or you haven't found somebody whose better than the previous one. But lets be honest with ourselves, why are you really finding it so hard to forget? Yes you may have loved the person so much and yes it could have hurt so bad when you had to call it quit....But there are also other details that can make you recall the past. Those things could include the following namely;

1. Old pictures; Do you have old pictures in your boxes or closset that you are secretly keeping. Having them hidden somewhere is one thing, but occasionally looking at them will really make it difficult to forget the past. Heres some good advice for you, you have to make a decision.

2. Places; We can't always avoid going to places which bring back good romantic memories of the two of you together. But you can do it for the time being....Unrealistic you say? well heres some good advice for you, you have to start from somewhere. If you continously visit romantic spots which will just reopen old wounds, you might just find it difficult to forget sometimes. Well thats just my opinion..take it or leave it.

3. Seeing them; The biggest problem why it is just so difficult to forget someone for some people is because they have to meet them everyday. Plain and simple.

Moving on

You have to move on in life and thats just how it is. If you continuously dwell on the past then sometimes you may find it really hard to move ahead. One thing you should do is give yourself time to heal and if possible spend your time with close family or friends. Remember, being with people who care about you will act as a distraction from focusing your thoughts in the past. When the time is right, you may find a better person and become happier than before. Dont lose hope and all the best!!

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