Thursday, 26 December 2013

How to reject somebody without hurting them

Its never really easy

Lets say you are not interested in somebody even after they have been persueing you for many months, just how do you reject them without hurting them? Well, it may look easy but the truth is things can get really complicated if the person you are rejecting is (1) your Ex, (2) someone you like or (3) someone you are not interesting in. Heres some good advice for you, lets dive into this further shall we.

3 testing situations

1. Rejecting your Ex; Lets say you broke up with your Ex months ago and after some time the both of you become good friends. Lets say your Ex wants to be given a second chance but you soon decide that it cannot happen. Just how do you spill the beans?

Over the years you have known each other its obvious you also know their personality quit well right? So make sure when breaking the news to them you do it in a way that they won't get offended. Since you have known each other quit well, you will be sure that at a certain time of the day or at a certain place or in a certain way of expressing yourself will you be able to break the news without offending particularly them.

2. Rejecting someone you like; If there is someone out there who is persueing you and you clearly like them but for some reason known to yourself you decide to reject them, just how do you do it? Well heres some good advice for you, if you truly like them you are going to do it in a way you wont want to offend them.

You first have to begin by telling them how you really feel about them and also explain other positive qualities you have personally observed.But when breaking the news, just explain to them why you think it wont be possible for the two of you to have anything...SEEE. Ofcourse, if you are still not sure about the possibilities of the two of you, you may want to still maintain a just friends arrangement.

3. Someone you are completely not interested in; For somebody you are not interested in, simply put yourself in their shoes. If you were in their shoes, how would you like the bad news to be broken out to you. Heres some good advice for you, if circumstances permit might want to consider breaking the news in a polite but considerate way. It's your call.

All the best!!


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