Sunday 25 August 2013

How to be liked by others

Anything is possible if you do it right

Everyone would like to be liked by people around them especially around those they consider important to them. You see, human beings are social beings and thats Thats!! However, why is it that others seem to be like more than others? Well there are a lot of reasons to that some of them genuine while others not so genuine. But this advice blog is talking about being liked by others because of your good qualities you display. Heres some good advice for you, if you really want to be liked by others you have to display good sound qualities.


Displaying good qualities

1. Hardworking; If you work for a company and you keep wondering why a certain employee is liked a lot, well it could be because he or she is hardworking. Hardwork can be displayed anywhere from the place of employment, at school and even in a family. When people see how much seriousness you devote to important tasks that produce good results that they also desire at the end of the day they tend to admire you. Your aim is not to be admired anyway but just to be liked. Honest hearted people will certainly like you.

2. Available, Approachable and Sociable; When people observe that you are not the type that easily shuns others away, they will be easily be prone to draw closer to you. Being sociable and available gets you liked by others because you are always there to interact wholesomely and also share upbuilding interesting ideas with others.

3. Friendly; Being friendly is another quality that can make others like you because when you are friendly you are not overly critical about others, you are not harsh and self centered and never look down on others but you actually care about other peoples interests. Important to drawing others to you.

There are alot of other qualities that a person can display to be liked by others but basically these are the main three. Now, you must realize that even if you displayed these qualities to a whole bunch of people its not actually everyone who will truly appreciate them. Why? Well some people consider such qualities as old fashioned, others consider them as outright boring while others just dont like them. Some will infact tell you that it is far interesting and entertaining if you are not even friendly at all.

So what is the point here? Heres some good advice for you, being liked by others shouldn't mean you should be liked by everyone in the world because some people don't really appreciate good qualities. But being liked by the right people at the right place and time, even if they are only a few people is as good as it gets. So what decision are going to make?

How to know they really like you

Basically that is easy because people who really like will show it clearly. Take for instance what would you say of a person who claims to like you but almost never says hi to you in the morning even though you are just close neighbors. You will definitely agree how hard it would be to believe they actually like you from the heart. So heres some good advice for you, people who like you will show it through actions and not just by word of mouth and artificial smiles.

When people like you or atleast claim to, you will only really prove it by their actions and nothing more or nothing less. Heres some good advice for, observe the actions of people around you then make a good honest conclusion. All the best folks.

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