Sunday 18 August 2013

How to Reject Him

Especially when you seeing somebody else

For the ladies you have definitely received a couple of advances from a alot of guys you either liked or didn't really like. Whatever the case, you just thought to yourself he just wasn't the one at all. So, here's a question for you, how do you reject a guy who really likes you and is so persistent to the point you just don't know what to do? Actually, it gets even better....You like him. Heres some good advice for you, rejecting a guy is totally, totally easy if you come to think of it. But it just gets complicated if you like him, and you are dating already and you dont know what to do. Lets dive into this further shall we.


How it all started

You meet a certain gentleman somewhere and it doesn't take long for the both of you to like each other. Ofcourse that can happen all the time because we are all human right? But knowing the principled lady that everybody knows you to be, you don't want to raise hopes in the gentlman you just met because you are already dating. However, it just so happens that you find yourself conversing and conversing and soon realize that you have so much in common that is scary. A few weeks later, the gentleman trys to get close to you and keeps trying to persuade you to be his. Just how do you do it? Heres some good advice for you, it all begins with you.

You see, in my opinion if any lady out there wants to reject a man and make him leave her sight never to be seen again, she can do it. However, the difficult part is deciding whether you really want to. If you are already dating but you meet someone else, you really have to come up with a decision. In my opinion, it isn't right to break it off especially if the guy you are already dating is a real gentleman and hasn't done anything...Anyway thats just my opinion. But everyone is entitled to make their own choices in life and its no forcing matter. So, lets see how you get a guy to flee from you just incase you want to reject his advances.

Tips to reject a guy

1. Tell him; Simply just tell him you are not available and not interested. You can tell him over the phone or when he comes over to see you. Just tell him you are not interested and that's that.

2. Show him; When you are not interested in him you should actually mean it. Don't invite him to make more advances to you by giving him a warm smile, or by staring at him.....simply make it clear you are not interested by not even looking at him even when you meet him. If he says hi, don't give him a convincing hi.

3. Be forceful; If he still can't get the message and still makes some serious advances to you, you will have absolutely no choice but to be forceful and aggressive. You can tell him firmly to his face in front of everyone that you are not interested or, you can simply do the same thing but with much more anger and agression. Hopefully he will get the message then,

These three pointers only work if you are sure you don't want him near you but if you are not, then in my opinion you have to make a decision. Heres some good advice for you, hope your decision is worth it.

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