Saturday, 24 August 2013

The staring look

What does it mean when someone stares at you?

Many people ask this question at work, at school in other social gatherings and still don't seem to find the answers they are really looking for. What does it mean when somebody of the opposite sex gives you a stare? Well, to be honest it could mean alot of things but think of it this way, when you go shopping and take a long look at an expensive dress or suit......Why do you do that? Well it could mean you like what you see, or it could mean that you can't believe how expensive or cheap the item is, or it can mean you admire the merchandize that you wish it was yours but can't afford it, it could mean a lot of things. Heres some good advice for you, when someone stares at you don't easily get scared.

Getting your first stare

Lets say you know somebody and on a regular basis they stare at you occasionally, what do you make out of that? Well, most of the interactions that has been observed is that the person probably likes what they are looking at. There is nothing wrong in admiring a handsome person or a beautiful lady because the truth is, its good to look at. But the dangers is that if the stare goes too far it can make the victim uncomfortable, make the person lose concentration and perhaps keep the person asking what does this stare mean? A stare can send mixed signals to a person which can just confuse things sometimes.

When a person stares at you in most cases they like what they see and they like you. But, its only a like that they show it doesn't necessarily mean they want to be in a relationship with you but they just like you because of the way you look and the way you behave. Jumping into conclusions and thinking that they want to be in a relationship with you or they love you could be misleading especially if it comes from a total stranger you just met. The only sure way of knowing whether that stare means anything is if that person actually made an effort to get to know you.

Although it is not always conclusive why a person stares, you should know that you have been spotted and they like what they see.

How to respond

If you feel uncomfortable and you don't like the person then just ignore the stare. However, if you like the person and you are sure that they are not harmful, then you can respond back with a simple smile or a simple hi or a simple look back. When you start with a hi, you allow for a conversation and then you begin to get to know each other. Heres some good advice for you, starting a conversation with someone you like will let you get to really know whether this person is right for you or not.


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