Tuesday 20 August 2013

The world of Divorce

The possibility of reconciliation

When two people get Married the last thing on their minds is ever to get a divorce. Divorce is truly a sad experience for anybody and the truth is, nobody wants to go down that road from the beginning. However, often times people resort to divorce, and divorce and divorce. What exactly is the problem? In my opinion, I feel that two people can divorce when adultery has been established but does that still leave any room for reconciliation? Heres some good advice for you, reconciliation can really help save any Marriage. Lets dive into this shall we.


Saving a Marriage

A Marriage is really a union that needs to be cherished forever. The possibilities of raising a happy family is really the aim of most newly weds, but along the way they soon realize how difficult, stressful and annoying it can be sometimes just to make things work. No matter what problems two people face, there is always possibilities for reconciliation. What exactly are the benefits of reconciling? There are plenty, here's some good advice for you, the advantages can be plenty depending on circumstances.

1. Your children; When a couple fight, argue and eventually think of having a divorce, sometimes they forget about the happiness of their children. Children are much happier if a couple are together but ofcourse sometimes it gets complicated. However, the benefit of reconciling is that your children will be happier being in a united family.

2. Yourself; The emotional and psychological damage that a divorce will have can leave only deep scars which can take sometime to heal. But when two people reconcile, ofcourse it wont immediately remove the damage and scars that were caused because of the pain. However, within sometime one can hope that happiness will be restored.

How to reconcile

Its really a personal decision for anybody to consider reconciling depending on the circumstances that are prevailing. It does take alot of effort to forgive and forget, but the truth is it also takes you to think by yourself what really went wrong. Questions that may need to be asked are the following namely;

-Was I partly to blame for this failing Marriage?
-Can we give this Marriage a second chance?
-Can I give myself a second chance at all?

Reconciling can also involve inviting somebody who is close to the Marriage couple and who is looking for the couples best interests. This could be family members, in laws or really trusted friends. Marriage counselors in my opinion is a personal decision that a couple may or may not decide to take. When reconciling it is always important to listen to each other and try to throw the anger and resentment away. Although this isn't always easy, it can help you. All the best!!

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