Are you in a real relationship?

You may think you are but aren't

Relationships are such a sweet thing in life more especially if everything is going on just fine. However, if you didn't know, sometimes people think they are in a real relationship.....but when reality comes knocking on their door they just find out there wasn't really anything seriously happening. But then, what do we mean when we say a real relationship? Are most relationships real or not? Here's some good advice for you, real relationships are special.

Real relationships

Relationships these days are all about getting to know each other. Ofcourse there are other activities that include going out and texting but the whole point is for the two of you to get to know each other well. In real relationships the ultimate goal is to see whether the two of you can spend the rest of your lives together in happiness. So what does this all mean? Well real relationships involve seriousness and two people have to both realize where they want to ultimately go.

Most times, people take dating for mere fun and you find that because of that, relationships dont quit last as long as what most people would like to see. I mean think of it, if a relationship only lasts for three months would you call that a real relationship? Not at all folks. But you see, whatever the case it seems to be okay for countless people out there because they get to break up and make up and eventually find somebody they so desire. But then, what are the characteristics of real relationships? Are you in a real relationship or are you just being taken for a ride?

5 characteristics of real relationships

1. Genuine interest; People who are getting to know each other are doing it not out of selfish reasons or because there are strings attached. But they are doing it because of that genuine desire to get to know each other. There are times you just want to know a person because of that genuine interest and nobody forces you to show that interest but you just have it in you.

2. Loyalty; In real relationship, people are loyal to each other. They know that it is absolutely inappropriate to toy with another persons feelings. They know that in a real relationship you have to commit only to one person.

3. Love; Love and not infatuation should be a driving quality that should bind two people together for a long time. In real relationships, love truly endures in my opinion. Ofcours you might have your own views but to me, in my opinion this is truly a good quality.

4. Time frame; Most people in real relationships will be together for a long time something that is different from relatonships that just takes a few months. Heres some good advice for you, if you are in a relationship always aim to be together for as long as possible.

5. Marriage the goal; In my opinion, Marriage should really be on the back of the heads of both people atleast at some point while they are dating.

Whatever the case most real relationships should bring something meaningful at the end of the day and really contribute to a whole lot of joy and happiness. All the best!!