How to talk to them

You just spotted somebody you like

Everybody wants to get Married one day and there is nothing wrong in doing so. However, even as we embark on this search for the perfect match we must always remember that the first step is the most crucial. That step really involves taking the first step to talk to them. But before we even dive into understanding how you actually get to talk to someone you like, we must understand what makes it so difficult to approach or even talk to somebody you like. Heres some good advice for you, read on.

Why it is so difficult

It is really difficult sometimes because of the like you have for somebody which probably makes the whole process of talking so difficult. For starters, we usually dont want to be disliked by somebody we like and the thought of things not working just strikes fear in us. Sometimes it is also because we haven't done such a thing before or had a strong like for someone. Therefore, when its the first time it could present alot of challenges especially on what to say or how to act.

Another reason why its so difficult is because of the perception you have of the other person. Sometimes because of a persons background or other factors like social status, education or occupation...it tends to present a challenge to approach somebody like that to some people.

Good advice on how to talk to them

Whenever you want to talk to somebody you like, first of all you have to take a really, really deep breath and remove all the tension you feel right now. Now assuming you have already done a brief background check on the persons behavior and their personality from others and have found it to be likeable, heres some good advice for you now is the time to take action.

One common mistake people make is that they always wait for things to happen without them actually taking the initiative. Don't think you two will just end up talking out of nowhere, you have to make the first step. Now, the biggest problem why people hesitate on top of the reasons from the preceding is because they are just dead nervous. Here's some good advice for you, don't be.

For starters you just have to walk over to them and say a simple hi and introduce yourself. Ofcourse, you have to do it at an appropriate time and place and not at a time when its completely bad. For example, walking over to somebody when they are with a bunch of friends may be a bad idea in my opinion. But if you are up for the challenge be my guest.

You see, when you approach somebody for the first time try to visualize how you would react if you were in their shoes. How would you like somebody to approach you, and how do you think you would react if they did not do it right? So, in a nut shell you have to perfect your skill by giving a very good first impression which even you would like. Don't be serious, but smile at the person and look presentable. Be confident and always remember to be polite and considerate.

Don't be in the habit of finding out from people how someone really thinks of you, although that might be a wise idea the truth is, some people say things they don't really mean because they are in a certain mood, or in a certain place or whatever. But if you really want to know if somebody likes you, you have to see it for yourself. You have to hear it from them....Tricky isn't it? When you decide to talk to someone begin knowing them one step at a time and start by having a good friendly conversation with that person.

All the best!!