Saying your goodbyes

A friendship you thought would last forever

Having a best friend you can play, share and enjoy wonderful moments with is really a rare scenario these days. Every human being needs a trustworthy companion whom they can share secrets with and solve problems. Ofcourse, it can be really hard to see a best friend suddenly leave to another city, or town or country. That's really what happens to many people today and none of those situations have been really pleasant because saying goodbyes is like saying goodbye to a wonderful friendship. Heres some good advice for you, you are not alone.

Why friends leave

Friends leave due to a number of reasons some of them include job prospects, better life elsewhere, marriage or even catastrophe. Ofcourse, non of these things is usually anyone's fault but its just that life is always in transition. We are always on the move exploring new things, and looking for better ways to live our short lived lives.

When a friend decides to leave, the first thing that comes into our minds is why? But even as that why question is answered, we usually don't want our close friends to leave us for whatever reason. We usually wan't them to stay because just the thought of them leaving hurts us inside. Saying a goodbye is never easy considering the many joyful times you spent together and the many times you pulled through problems together, its never easy to say goodbye. But thats just how it is, sometimes you just have to accept the situation.

Even when friends leave, you dont have to feel too low. We live in a global village and no matter how far somebody travels, you can still keep intouch through phone, email or letter. What really matters is communication.

How to say Goodbye

When saying goodbye to your best friend, don't make the atmosphere feel so sad and low like you will never see each other again. Ofcourse you can exchange a few tears, but really your friendship will not die simply because of moving to different places, but will always be there as it should be.

Just say your goodbyes and get it over with. Exchange your new contact details and addresses and always try to keep in touch. When the right time comes, arrange to travel on a visit and catch up on old times with the limited time you have to spend. Also, learn to make new friends and also accept the new friends made by your best friend with open arms.

Heres some good advice for you, say your goodbye in a happy cheerful way and look forward to meeting each other again. All the best!!