Monday, 21 October 2013

5 misconceptions about relationships

Many times people have their own understanding of relationships which can be either sound and clear or just way off. You see, because of different circumstances and different experiences in life we tend to misunderstand relationships and anything attached to it. Am I making any sense? well heres some good advice for you, read on.

5 misconceptions about relationships

1. What happened before will happen again; Alright you were hurt by somebody you liked or if not loved so much right? Well while its true that what happended before can happen again, we have to be true to ourselves, it doesn't always happen like that. Yes, past bitter experiences may actually prevent us from moving on to a new stable, secure relationship. We need to remove that fear and get back on track as soon as possible. Remember, dont hold that misunderstanding in you indefinitely, MOVE ON!!

2. All guys or girls are cheats; We all know this isn't true right? But it is all too easy to say it especially when you as an individual went through a horrible ordeal. However, ofcourse there are many out there who dont take love and relationships seriously, but that doesn't mean that all men are cheats or all ladies are cheats. Heres some good advice for you, you just need to find the right one.

3. Its love all the way; Yes love will always be there, but not always all the way because there will always be challenges that affect a couple. The thing is, we all have to be prepared for them. What really happens if our expectations are so high? Well we may just end up getting dissapointed and giving up on love forever. Lets not fall into that trap folks.

4. I can change him/her; While its true that a couple can have a very powerful influence on each other, heres some good advice for you...You can't really change a person but if somebody wants to change they will do it because they want to not because you want it.Ofcourse situations differ.

5. They will never find out; Getting to know somebody really narrows down to learning about each other. Ofcourse there are some secrets they will never find out about you. However, you mustn't always think they can remain concealed forever especially if it affects the two of you. Heres some good advice for you, find an appropriate time to tell them and dont let somebody else do it on your behalf.

Making the best of your relationship

Having a successful relationship really requires two people to communicate and let their love grow for each other. Love is a gradual process which doesnt happen all of a sudden but really takes time and effort from each person. Key questions that everyone should ask themselves if they want to make their relationship work are,

1)What is the best thing I can give to my loved one? Is it my time, is it my love and my generousity? Often times we tend to forget how much time is needed to make a relationship grow.
2)How can I show I am always there for them? Are you always available to listen to their problems and act upon them? Something you can ask yourself.
3)What do I really want to get from this relationship at the end of the day? Is it Marriage?

Heres some good advice for you, lets make it happen. All the best!!



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