Wednesday 18 December 2013

When your boss starts making advances

Your boss wants a relationship

The working world is just filled with surprises isn't it? But the truth is, the mere fact that we spend most of our precious time at work instead of at home with our families actually makes the working world our second home in a way. However, what would you do if your boss started to make serious advances at you? Well heres some good advice for you, there is need to think things through seriously.


Think things through seriously

Having a relationship is somethings most people in life want in general. However, when a boss asks to start going out with you, that in itself is a little complicated. You see folks, in some organizations dating in the workplace is prohibited. And whats even worse, if you are caught sometimes the last person to get the blame is your boss meaning you will be the first one out of the job.

Another thing you really need to ask yourself is, how will other workmates view me when the truth gets out there? Alot of times, workmates wont really see you in a positive light because all those promotions you will have will be because of your relationship. All those improved salary scale you may have, is because of the relationship you have. People will definitely talk about you alot and you have to live with that.

Another thing is if your boss is already married, then you should know definitely that it wont work out. If you are married, it is just the same thing. You see how complicated it is dating a boss? Heres some good advice for you, maybe you really have to think things through.

When it may seem okay

At the end of the day whether somebody is a boss or not, the thing is you have to ask yourself whether they are the right person for you. Are they the kind you want and need? Do they have the right qualities and do they also have a good reputation? Are they available? What will be the consequences if I actually do? If you consider wanting to date your boss then thats your decision to make but remember the working world does bring alot of complications along with it. It is completely your call, heres some good advice for you, make the right decision and think things through.

All the best!!

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