6 Questions to ask yourself always

Personal Questions you need to Ask

Sometimes it is really important to ask yourself key questions that will help you pull through the many challenges and face the opportunities that you may have to face at any point in time. In my opinion, there is always need for a self examination and a need to really get to visualize things and get to see the reality as it really is. Here's some good advice for you, there are basically 6 questions you should ask yourself to avoid challenges and realize the opportunities that present themselves to you. This advice blog will run you through the 6 key self examination questions you need to always ask.

Key Self Examination Questions

1. What are my strengths and Weaknesses; As you journey through life you have to know exactly what your strengths and weaknesses are. Why is this important....Well simply because by knowing what you are good at and knowing what you are not good at can you begin to know fully well were you should improve and make the needed adjustments. Here's some good advice for you, measuring strengths and weaknesses requires you to look at your past, ask others who know you well and also set meaningful targets.

2. How do I react to criticism; Criticism is usually not taken nicely because sometimes criticism is made just to make you weak and defenseless. Although not all criticism is bad, you will have to agree that constructive criticism could be good for you...How so, because it will enable you to look at yourself in a different perspective and see whether there is need for you to make drastic changes. Ofcourse it doesn't mean you should follow the crowd but all it means is that you can use criticism to build yourself.

3. How do others see me; Sometimes you may feel like you are not good enough for anybody and don't have the potential for anything. However, others may see you differently and may actually look to you as a good example. It is always important not to isolate yourself or confine yourself to only your personal reasonings that may discourage you. It can also go the other way around, others may see you as not so serious, lazy or not appealing but what do you do about that? Thats a personal question for you!

4. Who really are my friends; Friends are really a major part of our lives and no matter what we do, we all need friends. But it is worth mentioning that not all friends are actually your friends and therefore there is need for you to really get to know who genuinely wants to be with you. Remember, a friend and an acquaintance are two different people. A friend can make sacrifices but usually an acquaintance cant.

5. Who will I get married to; Marriage is one of the most important decisions that everybody has to make at one point in time. There is need to clearly know the kind of Marriage mate you would like to have. Ofcourse every one wants to have somebody good in their lives but you have to be more specific. What qualities do you want and what qualities should you have in a Marriage mate are some of the questions you should ask.

6. What are my future plans; Every one is encouraged to have some kind of road map on how they would like to spend their lives. Ofcourse it is true that not all your plans turn out exactly the way you had set them but by having a clear understanding of were you want to go will you be more focused. It is encouraged to realize that such goals shouldnt take away your time for your family, shouldnt lead to serious problems in your life, shouldnt give you a bad reputation, should benefit others and should build you positively.

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