How to Tell his the One

Searching for the Right Person

When it comes to finding the right kind of person to spend the rest of your life with in Marriage, you have to distinguish from what you want and what you should want. Ofcourse that can be a little unfair especially when you fell in love with somebody whom people don't quit agree with. However, here is some good advice for you, it shouldn't be all that bad. Lets look at some important things you should find in Mr or Ms right as you embark on finding a happy Marriage.

Qualities they need to have always

1. Love; This is very obvious and there is no need to explain this one further. However just as a reminder, what is love? Love is a combination of a lot of things but most people tend to associate it with the warmth, emotional and affectionate tendency that is rendered to another. Here's some additional reminders, Love is also generous, joyous and kind.

2. Faithful; If the person you are going out with is faithful, then you can be rest assured that they wont be unfaithful even in Marriage...Atleast its less likely that such a thing may happen. Faithfulness involves sticking to one person and not being a double player like you see today or in the movies.

3. Tolerant; Nobody is perfect and you will soon find that your future Marriage mate could have habits which are not necessarily very bad but you dont like them still. Heres some good advice for you, you have to be tolerant and learn to forgive.

4. Responsible; They definitely should be responsible people who know exactly how to run a home and how to use expenses wisely. You dont want a Marriage partner who will blow your family expenditure and leave you in a heavy amount of debt, it should be somebody who knows exactly what it means to handle money, family and other stuff.

5. Hardworking; They definitely should appreciate the value of hardwork.

6. Not Abusive; Alot of times we tend to ignore the signs that can only mean real trouble in Marriage. You have to be sure that your future Marriage partner is not abusive in speech and in actions. You will be surprised that some relationships are so abusive out there only leaving especially the woman in injuries. It is important to pull away from such relationships at all costs.

How to really tell his/shes the one?

You see, most times we always think its what we feel in the heart alone that matters. Heres some good advice for you, the heart sometimes can mislead you. Sometimes we fall in love with people who really aren't the right ones for us. Ofcourse its good to fall in Love with a future Marriage mate, however it is also important to have a realistic eye as to whether he really has a positive effect on you or not. In my opinion, this means doing your home work. Heres some good advice for you, for starters you have to ask yourself these important questions.

How do others view him/her or is he/she reported on well?
Does he/she Love my family?
How does he/she really feel about me?
Does he/she really want Marriage or he/shes just taking me for a ride?
What is he/shes view on Money?

These are but a few questions you can ask yourself when you are ever finding out who really is the one for you. This advice blog will produce future articles on this same topic at an in depth level. All the best folks!