Leaving a relationship

The best time to call it quit

You have been dating for quit sometime now and everything used to be so perfect......so it seemed. You used to have such a good time and even the feelings you had were bigger than most people whom you would see make up and break up. It never occured to you for a single second that both you and your love would ever reach the stage of considering a breaking up. It happens all the time these days...People are breaking up and making up all the time and its kind of turning into a normal trend. But why do people break up anyway? Heres some good advice for you, breaking up may actually be good for you as well as bad. But before we even go further, we need to understand the whole situation to the fullest sense of the word.

The situation of a young couple

Young couples are usually full of themselves and are usually inexperienced, so sometimes they make wrong decisions simply because of a simple mistake. When two young people fall in love, they first thing they think in their minds is that everything will be perfect, maybe thats what we all think. But when reality knocks on our doors, then thats when people rush into thinking of a break up.

Lets take for example, two young people who have been dating for 3 months and slowly they soon realize that the strong feelings they once had slowly reduces. Does that mean its time for a break up? Some young couples actually think that's the best time for a break up because what is a relationship without being in love with anybody. Heres some good if not great advice for you folks, the heart can easily mislead us. You know something, sometimes you have to use your head. Dont always just rely on feelings to make the decisions for you but try to understand or analyze the situation carefully.

When young people meet each other and suddenly realize that the relationship isnt as interesting as it once was, then people think of a break up. But is that wise? Here is something for you, these things happen but if you are considering of leaving a relationship you should leave it for the right reasons.

Good reasons to leave the relationship

1. Emotional, psychological and mental unreadiness; You know sometimes you can carry out a self examination of yourself and try to really understand if this is what you really want. Remember, if you end up marrying a person and you are not ready to commit to the relationship, then you shouldnt be dating in the first place. Dont waste the time of your loved one, tell him/her what is on your mind and whether or not you are actually ready to commit to a Marriage one day.

2. Abuse; If you are constantly being abused whether in word or actions, then you shouldn't be part of the relationship at all. I mean why should you sacrifice your precious health on somebody who doesn't care about you at all. Alright you might say "But I Love Him/her" Try to seat down and analyze whether that's a wise course of action.

3. Bad Influence; If the person you are dating is making you do things that are not right, then you should consider leaving. Ofcourse that might be a hard thing to do but here's some good advice for you, consider leaving unless there is a good reason not to.

Leaving a relationship may be one of the hardest things anyone can do, but it is also important that you realize that sometimes its a good thing to leave if you have to.But if its for simple reasons such as a difference in opinion and you know its a problem you can talk about, why not give the relationship a second chance. All the best.