Dealing with critism

Dont always take it personal

Have you ever been criticized? Well that can really touch negatively on anybody especially when you know you have done your best to do the right thing. However what exactly is criticism? Well according to one definition, criticism is an expression of disapproval by someone based on perceived faults or mistakes. Ofcourse, since it is only means that it is perceived it doesn't necessarily mean that you have done anything wrong. However, it still needs to be said that nobody is perfect and we are always bound to make mistakes. So how do we exactly deal with criticism? Well before we answer that, why do people even get criticized at all. Heres some good advice for you, READ ON!!

5 common criticisms made by people

1. They talk too much: You know people may criticism you because they feel that you talk too much. Many times you may hear this statement made against anybody and then you ask yourself whether its true. Whether its true or not, the fact is somebody is being criticized for exhibiting a percieved weakness in the eyes of others. OUCH!!

2, They only think of themselves; Sometimes people criticism others of being self centered and not really thinking about the welfare of others. Hearing something like that can be really discouraging especially if it isn't true, however that's why its called a criticism.

3. They are lazy; Some people think of others as being lazy and relaxed about life because they haven't really made it in life and probably because things just hasn't happened. Ofcourse that can really hurt especially if you feel it isn't true at all, but lets just say that is all what criticism is all about. It is negative.

4. They never do anything right; One of the most common critisms I have personally heard is that they never do anything right. That can be really damaging to anybody even if it is true. However, thats just how life is, it is full of criticisms.

5.  They are too irritating; Something I personally hear alot these days is people cristising others because they are percieved to bee too irritating. Well what can we say, whether its true or not it is all just criticism. Here's some good advice for you, you have to deal with it.

Dealing with criticism

Criticism is definitely something which usually isn't easy to deal with but lets face it, it is a reality we all face. Heres some good advice for you, if you are being criticized whether its true or not it certainly is something you can do well to reflect and learn. You know, most times we easily get offended of what others say about us and that can really be damaging especially if you know thats not how you are. But the funny thing is that many think they really arent how people think of them.

How do you exactly deal with a criticism? well first things first, don't easily get offended and try as much as possible to establish whether what other people think about the matter is the truth. Ask a close friend or a relative and get their views. If it isn't true then you have nothing to worry about, but if you establish that what others say about you is genuine, then there is urgent need to make drastic changes. You see criticism, can actually help you become a better person. When somebody says something negative about you, whether its true or not you can always find ways to improve.

The sky is the limit folks and nobody is perfect, the best way to handle any challenge in life is to bravely take it on. Heres some good advice for you, don't overreact but always find a way to use criticism to build yourself, your qualities and your personality. All the best!!