Thursday, 12 September 2013

How to tell someone you are sorry

Hurting your love is painful

If you are going through a situation in life where you made a terrible horrible mistake against the person you love so much, you are not alone. The truth is, mistakes always happen in life and there is little we can do to reverse what just happened. You have heard of the saying don't cry over spelt milk right? Lets just say you have been dating this one person you love so much to the pount you even want to Marry them one day. Imagine having committed a mistake which you are so ashamed of and you just dont know what to do to earn the forgiveness and trust you once shared together. Heres some good advice for you, you can get back together. However, the question is how?

Telling someone you are sorry from the heart

Its never easy getting back together with somebody you offended really badly. Ofcourse, it may not be your date but it could be anybody in this world. You see, if you broke up because of a mistake you did, it is still very much possible to get back together again.

Telling someone you are sorry should come from the heart and shouldn't be because you have to, but because you genuinely want to. When you offend somebody you have to realize that as normal human beings they are hurting very much and you shouldn't expect miracles to happen. Healing almost always takes some bit of time. However, that is not to say you still don't have a chance. In most cases when you hurt someone, they don't want to see you again or even talk to you.

You have to take it calmly and you have to be consistent. Don't give up but keep on trying to reach the offended persons heart by what you say and how you say it. If they dont want to see you, dont hold it against them but give them some time to heal. Healing takes time especially if the offense was serious. Now how do you actually tell someone you are sorry by word and action?

Tips to getting forgiven

1. Be apologetic; When somebody apologizes, it is not exactly what you say but how you say it. When you apologize you should mean what you say and it should defintely touch a persons heart in the way you say it.

2. Admit you made a mistake; Being defensive about what you did wont get you anywhere, but admitting you were wrong could get you forgiven very quickly. It is always important to reassure the offended person that you will never repeat it ever agiain.

3. Take measures to change; If there are clearly things about you that lead to the offense or qualities about you which you think you should change, then heres some good advice for you why not make those changes. Taking steps to change will not only be good for you but will also make your loved one see the seriousness of your desire to get back together again.

4. Buy a sweet gift; A gift can be very thoughtful way of trying to convince someone you still care about them and you want them back in your lives.

All the best folks in your endeavors because whether its a friend, or a Marriage mate or someone you are courting, you can still make things work. Here's some good advice for you, you can do it.



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