Thursday 19 September 2013

How to save your relationship

There are some relationships if not many that are on the verge of collapsing. Ofcourse that can happen alot these days for a countless number of reasons and although sometimes we really want to be together, it just turns out that the relationships is really on the rocks. Imagine you are in such a situation, how do you even begin to save the relationship? Heres some good advice for you, nobody said it would be easy.


Saving your relationship from disaster

Many times we will tell ourselves that we still love the person we are dating and we dont want the relationship to end. If somebody tells you that they want to have a short break out of the relationship making it seem like its just because you two need some space, then know for sure that your relationships is heading for disaster. In my opinion, that really isnt the solution.

So how do you exactly save your relationship from a break up disaster? well first of all you really have to identify why your relationship has arrived at this state in the first place. Alot of times couples just keep on banking the mistakes and offences that were committed by their love without really sorting the problem out. In a nut shell, it doesn't really help to keep things in but it helps alot, if problems or misunderstandings are let out and solved. Saving your relationship will certainly require time and energy. Here are a few tips to saving your relationship from a total break-up, heres some good advice for you...Nobody said it would be easy.

1. Forgiveness; Easier said than done but that is the first way a relationship can be saved. If two people are ready to forgive each other and put things behind them then things can work.

2. Committment; Even after apologies are made and sorry s said, you might just find that things aren't the same as they were before. Ofcourse that is a reality that we have to embrace especially if you were the one who caused the relationship to be at the state that it is. However, you have to be committed to saving the relationship. You have to take time and effort to save it. What are some things you should do to show that you are actually committed? Well for starters, your actions will speak for itself. Take for example, if you are a person who hasn't made certain personal changes in your life  to make the relationship work, then it just shows you aren't really committed to that cause. Here's some good advice for you, commitment will always show in somebody.

3. Get some help; There is nothing wrong in getting an extra hand in saving your relationship from somebody close to you. Take for instance, your love doesn't want to get back together with you at all costs. If you just so happen to be good friends with his/her friend, why not ask them to talk to the person you are dating that you still want the relationship to work. Alternatively you can get the assistance of somebody whom you know will certainly be successful in talking to your date about the possibilities of saving the relationship.

4. Patience; Do not think that saving your relationship will always take a day, or a week or even a month...Sometimes it takes longer than that but the point is you dont want to look so desperate that it even becomes irritating. Be patient and try to take things as cautious as possible. Remember, when you want to save a relationship, sometimes the other person wont easily give you a quick response as to whether you two can continue but he/she will certainly be thinking about it. During that long phase of them thinking, dont be too pushy but give them space to think.

Heres some good advice for you, nobody said it would be easy but taking these steps may take you somewhere. All the best!!
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