How to tell someone is unhappy

You really should see the warning signs

There is really not a doubt that sometimes a relationship may seem so perfect and so secure. But the truth is, sometimes what you see on the outside isn't really how a couple are really feeling. Yes those smiles and hugs may not actually be what is in the inside because sometimes people in a relationship are secretly sad. But how do you tell whether the person you are dating isn't really happy but are secretly suffering inside. Heres some good advice for you, it isn't very easy.

Signs he/she isn't really happy

Its not really easy to tell that somebody isn't really happy because there is nobody in this entire world who can read hearts. However, there are some warning signs you wont want to ignore.

1. If they say so; If in your conversations as a couple, somebody is always mentioning how unhappy they are to you or to other most trusted people you know, that could be a warning sign. The biggest mistake you can make is simply ignoring it.

2. Their Atitude; If somebody is always moody and negative when he/she is with the person their dating, but doesn't behave the same way with other people then that could be a warning sign. I mean think of it, they are supposed to be happy with you and not vice-versa. Ofcourse circumstances do differ from situation to situation, but that can probably be a warning sign you shouldn't ignore.

3. The way they see other relationship; Many people who are unhappy with their relationship are usually happy with other relationship they see either on T.V or in their own circles. So, if for some reasons you are always hearing him/her say good about other relationships and rarely commends your own, then that could be a warning sign.

Good advice to making it work

When you get to confirm that the person you have a relationship with isn't really happy, then you have to find a way to make them happy. There are many ways to do that, but all in all its begins with talking it out and letting it out. In your discussion be honest and open and then find a lasting solution.

Take for example, if the problem is that you don't have time for the relationship then what is the solution? You have to find time to be together. If you are dating this advice applies to you, however if you are married this advice applies to you even more because there is nothing more important than to see your family remain happy, especially your spouse. Heres some good advice for you, dont mess things up.