Best ways to say am Sorry

Sometimes its really hard

Alright you just made a horrible terrible mistake and just have no idea how to say you are sorry. Its never easy getting the words out especially when you are weighed down with guilt and sorrow. However, apologies in whatever case are never easy to say but whats important is, at least you tried. Apologies are easier said than done, but what is really important is atleast you meant it....Well assuming you did. Here is some good advice for you, whatever happens..you should give it a shot.

5 ways to apologize

1. Send a sorry note; You can always send a note explaining how sorry you are and how bad you feel about the mistake you made. Although this isn't the most effective in my opinion, it is one step close to ironing out some differences. The note should be properly written and atleast should show much thought and effort you put into making it look presentable. Think of it, why do you think some people even send flowers?

2. Apologize through a close friend; If the person you care about doesnt want to see you but has a very close friend whom he/she trusts in, you can apologize through them. What does this mean? Well heres some good advice for you, tell the friend how sorry you are and what you would do to patch things up. You see, if you are able to win sympathy from their close friend, then will it make it easy for him/her to plead on your behalf on the person you care about. Not always successful but could amount to something.

3. Say it out in front of everyone; There may be occasions when you two may bump into each other maybe on an engagement party or family re-union or other important occasions, that could be a really good opportunity to get your feelings out. After respectfully excusing yourself in front of everyone you can just look into the eyes of the one you care about and sincerly say how sorry you are for the mistake you made. Heres some good advice for you, its never easy.

4. Tell them privately; One of the best ways to say you are sorry is to walk over to them and apologize. Ofcourse, its never easy admitting your mistakes especially when its face to face to someone you offended. You can tell them sincerely from the heart with no strings attached because you truly care.

5. Never let go; The best most assured way to win an apology is never to give up on an apology in the first place. What does that mean? When you aplogize dont expect to be forgiven the first time especially if it was a serious offence. What will really help is to keep on fighting for the person you care about and never letting go even if it takes a year, 2 years or even 5 years to win a forgiveness. Heres some good advice for you, persistence is key.

However, the best apology is the one you mean. Heres some good advice for you, you can do it. All the best!