Questions to ask yourself before breaking up

Something to consider always

There may be those times in life when we just think that the relationship we are in is going nowhere. That has happened to alot of people but still, should we rush into a break-up? or should we first seat down and understand some important questions. Heres some good advice for you, there are a couple of questions you should always do well to consider before rushing into a break-up. Lets dive into this shall we.

Questions to ask yourself

1. How big is the problem?; There are always valid reason why two people may choose not to be together however, is the problem that big that you can no longer be together? Ofcourse, thats for the couple to decide, but if a simple misunderstanding is present you really need to ask whether a break up is the solution or there could be other means. Heres some good advice for you, solving misunderstandings is key.

2. Any possibilities of giving the relationship a chance?; You know, sometimes we quickly rush into a break up without seriously considering the possibilities that the relationship can actually work if we give it a chance. Ofcourse circumstances do really vary but the truth is, if you seat down and reflect and then discover that you can actually give the relationship a second chance, why not do it.

3. How do you really feel?; Sometimes we may tell ourselves that we want to break-up but when you seat down by yourself you soon realize that you actually don't. Now we are not saying that you should remain in a relationship that is clearly bad for you however, for the relationship which is good and you know deep inside you dont want to break up, then rethink your decision seriously.

4. How do more experienced people feel?; It isn't wrong to get good and sound advice from people who care about you and are more experienced. However, remember that any decision you make in life becomes your responsibility and not the responsibility of your advisers, remember to weigh things carefully no matter what sort of advice you receive.

If your decision is to break-up

A break-up is never a good time for anybody. However, some break-ups are necessary while others are not. But heres some good advice for you, if you decide to break-up you have to live with your decision and make sure not to hold any regrets about it. There is need however to really think things through before coming up with a final decision. Be happy...All the best!!!