Saturday, 28 December 2013

Work and Family

Maintaining a balance

Being part of a family unit is really something truly special. However, the truth is most of the times work can seriously get in the way of family. How so? Well the more time you spend at work, the less time we spend with our families. But the truth is, we all know that we have a responsibility to take care of our families however the question still lies, how do we maintain the balance? Heres some good advice for you, priorities do really matter.

Setting your priorities

1. Spending time with your spouse; Your spouse really matters a lot in your life and the truth is, they really need you. However, sometimes work can really get in the way of a happy marriage and if left unchecked can spell trouble. How do you get around this? well first things first, always include some quality time strictly for you and your spouse. It doesn't need to be the whole day but could it be sufficient enough for both of you never to complain? Ask yourself that question.

2. Spending time with your kids and going out; Yes the kids also need your time and help. Why is it crucial that you spend quality time with your kids, well the truth is you want whats best for your kids and the last thing you need is seeing them bring harm to themselves. When you seat down and listen to what they have to say, you give them the opportunity for you to become closer with them and get to know them in ways you didn't really know before. You don't want your kids growing up and never knowing you at all now do you? Act promptly.

3. Giving some time to yourself; There is something you should always remember, you as a human being also need time to yourself. There is no need to add so much pressure to yourself because the truth is, for you to function well and be beneficial to your family, you also need to be okay internally. Take some time off and do things to ease yourself from all the pressures in life. Go out with friends and have a drink or two. Heres some good advice for you, don't neglect yourself.

Accepting a well paying job

You might be privileged to be given a higher paying job but you have to ask yourself these questions...Will it give you sufficient time for family? Its your call...ALL THE BEST!!!


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