Tuesday 10 September 2013

Protecting your relationship from the third person

When we are dating somebody , there is obvously good reason to feel that somebody else might snatch him or her away especially because that is the kind of thing we hear about so many times these days. However, we don't need to fear nomore because if you take the following tips, you might just save yourself the trouble of having to lose somebody you like or love to somebody else. Heres is some good advice for you, these things can happen anytime.

Tips to protecting your relationship

Whenever you are dating its important to understand that your date will meet alot of people with or without your presence. That is not a bad thing because lets face it, we are all social beings. Incase you didn't know, sometimes the person who is trying to snatch your date away from you could be somebody you know very well. Here are some ways to protecting yourself from a possible hijacking......SHIELDS UP!!!

1. Avoid secret dating; If you are dating secretly there are chances you will never know what is going on behind your back..WHy?? lets face it, since only a few people know about your relationship they wont be able to alert you if something went wrong or if somebody close to you was chasing after your date. Heres some good advice for you, you have to make the relationship known to family, friends and other concerned people. We are not saying you should advertise it, but just let people be aware of what is happening.

2. Confront the person; If you suspect that somebody is trying to ruin your relationship or snatch the person you care about away, tell them to keep away. You can either do it directly or indirectly. But in my opinion, the indirect method just for a start is better. What does the indirect method involve? Well, you dont necessarily have to tell the person to their face but you can simply give them a hint that you are aware about what is happening and wouldn't want it to continue. If that fails, you can tell him/her yourself by reaffirming to them that the both of you are committed. If that fails, then your date will need to be a part of preventing the whole thing all together.

3. Don't overreact; When you see your date with another person, dont overeact or storm around in anger because that would just weaken the relationship you already have. The point is, you have to come out as the better person and the way you react to such things sometimes will show whether you are the right person for them or not. Heres some good advice for you, when you see something like that....walk towards your date and ask them to come with you (calmly) or just stick around the three of you. And in your conversation, shift the topic from what they were discussing to your relationship and the wonderful time you two have been spending.

Good advice to having a happy relationship

Before you begin dating it is very important that you choose the right person. Also, there is need to be the right person to them. Ofcourse, sometimes things work out and other times it doesn't but how you react to problems will show whether you are actually ready for the commitment. Heres some good advice for you, maintaining a happy relationship involves being generous. Being generous with time and resources. All the best!!
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