When to pop the big question

You have been dating somebody for a while and as years have passed by you have really come to love them not because of their looks but mainly because of their personality. Ofcourse, we always ask ourselves when is it the right time to pop the big question of Marriage. Well heres some good advice for you, there isn't really any appropriate time because much depends on what you yourself want. However, we shouldn't ignore one thing, that everywhere you go in life timing is everything.

Getting the timing right the first time

Yes, you have been dating each other for a long time or probably you haven't really been dating but you both feel that you would make a great married couple. There is no reason to hold back especially if you have known each other for quit sometime. Lets say the both of you are the right age, earn a living and are able to raise a family together, then in my opinion Marriage should be a possibility for the both of you. However, there have been cases were some people have poped the big question and they just got horribly rejected infront of so many onlookers. That may have hurt!

But when is the timing really right? Well you can always do well to ask yourself the following important questions before proposing to your loved one.

1. How well do you know each other; This is pretty obvious and you may have heard this quit alot but sometimes we may tend to overlook this. Anyway, you dont have to know a person 100% before getting Married but the point is you want to establish whether you share the same interests, have the same goals, have the same desires for Marriage and perhaps even good Morals.

2. Do you both want to get Married to each other; Its really hard to tell whats on the mind of anybody however in my opinion, if a person does not really talk about the possibilities of wanting a family then it may raise a bit of some doubts. There should be some hints that the person you are dating wants to get Married to you.

3. Do you have some serious doubts; Before popping up the big questions make sure to clearup any doubts you may be carrying in you. There is absolutely no need to make your life difficult because the truth is, you want to enter your Marriage with a clear mind and no barriers. Ofcourse, every relationship will have some barriers but heres some good advice for you, if you think this one doubt you have is so serious....Wait a little until you clear things up.

4. Is the environment conducive; The best time to make a proposal to someone you love is if the prevailing situation in both your lives is relatively stable. Take for example, you wont propose to someone who is clearly, clearly busy at that moment in time and is trying to sort out something really important. But as somebody who has studied the environment you would look for a better opportunity to pop the big question. Maybe when they are relaxed or when there is no major events happening in their lives. Anyway, that's just my opinion.

There are ofcourse many other questions out there that should make you establish when to pop the big question but the point is, you should get the timing right. All the best!